Then he has obviously fallen out of his tree and hit every "stupid" branch on the way down.
Quote: I DO NOT WANT "sloppy seconds" or to be his one night stand
Then visualize him in the sleeper of that truck with Cassie all this time and that should take care of your sex drive.
Emily,
He has cheated on you, lied to you and slapped your heart around repeatedly just since WE have known you. IMHO, let the man see his kids, be nice and friendly and don't give off attitude...but remain at arms length. He put you there! Remember? That man has a lot to do to prove himself and he'd best get busy. It should take a while. He should also have STD test results in hand before he expects to climb back into your marriage bed.
If he actually struts his ass up in your house expecting more, his lack of respect for you will be blatantly obvious.