Thanks Santhony! Something must have worked. The peace I have felt today has been WONDERFUL. Today I didn't really think about the sitch. I feel like I left it alone. More praying to do tonight and more work tomorrow. We'll just see where this sucker goes.
I have talked to my H . . . twice as a matter fact. He called me both times. Short friendly convo. No R talk . . although he does still say ILY. His mother and little sister are coming up on Sat. with him in tow (since his car isn't running) to see the Kiya and Felina. That takes certain pressures off and puts others on. Oh well! It'll all work out. I'm glad that "Grandma" is finally taking some real interest!
Until then I'm riding the wave and watching it progress. Expectations are at ZERO . . THANK YOU GOD!! I expect nothing but a pleasant visit with the other side of the family. I think that's reasonable.