What you are saying is that meeting the mans needs must come LAST. Why? Why is it that LD women think that their needs must be met unconditionally while they get to CONDITIONALLY meet their mans needs?
Why not have BOTH spouses meet the needs of the other UNCONDITIONALLY? If the women can put conditions upon her desiring her husband, then can he not ALSO put conditions upon meeting her needs. And once people put conditions upon meeting needs, are we then not LOCKED into NEVER getting needs met?
