From http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/showflat.php?Cat=0&Number=3088426&an=0&page=0#Post3088426
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An excellent suggestion from Dr. Harley's book His Needs, Her Needs for Parents is to have SF to the freqency of the spouse with a higher drive, but in the way preferred by the partner with the lower drive.




for what good it will do?