Quote: This is not about SEX, this is about sexual fulfilment which is WAY beyond just sex. We tend to put too much focus on just the orgasam. In good sex, sex is about EVERYTHING. Most importantly, sex is communication between two people. It is an incredible mind game. What I am trying to say is that most of the important aspects of sex can NOT be experienced when going solo. It is the WHY you have sex that is truly important, not the HOW you have sex. In true passionate sex, it is a deeply emotional experience, it is crucial to well being, and it can not be acheived in any other way. In effect, there is no substitute for it.
I really want to put this in the body of one of my blog posts, and am trying to find ShortChanged to ask permission. It was posted on this thread so I'm hunting SC down here, and hoping to get permission. Sorry to hijack, there are just some really great points from posters here that speak to me, and I want to boil them all down into one blog post. Thanx! SC, if you find this post, please email me at instepford (at) gmail.com
What you quoted was actually written by CeMar, not me, so you'll have to ask him.
However, if you do want to quote anything I (Shortchanged) wrote here, feel free. I'd be flattered. Although there was one time I was - well I guess I was a little more amused than angry - to find an actual counselor and freelance writer use one of my posts from here on her website not only without my permission, but she just strategically changed a few words and cast me as if I had been one of her "patients." I couldn't believe the audacity of that! In fact I even went on the website and made a post exposing her by posting a link to my original post here...of course she deleted that post promptly when she found it....and I kept posting it back there...I played that game with her for a few days just to bug her!!! LOL!!!!
