Ah...but hairdog, pampering IS nurturing...whether you do it for yourself, or someone else.
When you buy a massage (for example) or a spa day for your W or a female relative....you would consider that pampering right? But it's a nurturing thing to do for someone...giving them a gift that makes them "feel" good. Why in the world do you think so many women do enjoy going to spas, or getting their nails done, or changing their hair styles? When they walk out of a spa/salon, they feel good about themselves. Sure, it's a treat too....but the portion of it that makes you "feel" good is the nurturing part of it.
