Thanks for all the recommendations and ideas about massage. I think I'll just get Lil to give me a freebie.
Really...it's not that big of a deal. To me, massages fit under the column of "pampering" rather than "nurturing." That is just my view.
My birthday plans for tomorrow are to have the kids be my slaves for a day and have them do the cleaning I'd normally do on the weekend. In the afternoon/evening, I hope to go with all of them to a little waterpark near my house. They have a "lazy river" that sounds too good to be true.