I think you are correct. Before the current sitch, I mentioned something to W about our 16th wedding anniversary coming up, and that her father stopped seeing her and her brother when she was 16? I told her I thought she was recreating her childhood in our marriage, and she was subconciously trying to wreck things, since that is what happened in her childhood. She agreed that there was probably something to what I was saying.
W and I thought she had her childhood memories concerning her father resolved, guess we hit a new milestone that hadn't been addressed in her previous counselling.
I'm going to start looking for an SBT next week that will start seeing me individually, and then both W and I after my current sitch is resolved.
