2Timothy Im so sorry!I think your W past is something she has repressed.And its coming to haunt her relationships with you, and family.She needs to let go of her past.If we let pain and hurt control our lives we become bitter and we tend to push the ones we love most away, and that causes more pain an anger and emotional upset.I think your wife needs to deal with the pain of her past,so she can trueley love herself and with that she will restore her love for you.