I don't think you are in the right forum. Maybe I'm wrong, but I thought this thread was for couples who are both on the same page and both want to work out the marital problems. You two seem like polar opposites in that regard.
Maybe you should move to Infidelity???
I'm no doctor but it seems like there are some radical mood swings going on. Are your children present during all of this screaming and fighting? Sounds like a very volatile environment.
I think you will both need some professional guidance to work this out. If W won't go, then go alone.
I wish you well.
Spitfire
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain