Quote: The key thing you need to ask yourself right now is not how to get your W back, but what kind of person to become.
Exactly. Do you like you? Do you want to continue to be the person she has been married too? You need to decide who you want to be, decide what it is you think is destructive about yourself in this relationship or any other that might come along and then start working on yourself to change. Maybe it is to late for this one, maybe not, but either way, making these changes can only make you a better person down the road, a better person that if this doesn't work out, maybe it has a chance with someone else. You've taken the first step by admitting you have problems, no one here will judge you, we all have issues, just roll your sleeves up and get to work.
The folks here will do whatever they can to help.
Learn to laugh at it. People are people and everyone is human. Choose how you will act and don't re-act.
