Hi there, -I think it is great that you lined up a sitter and got some "you" time finally.I hate that you had to run into the OW though.That can be really stressful.I think that it is good that she was confronted to the fact that you know about her.Sometimes it is helpful to let the OW know that you know about her and you won't stand for it.Hopefully she will stay away for good now!I actually had a conversation on the phone with my H's OW.It seemed to end the A,i don't think she ever planned on hearing from me.As long as things were sneaky everything was fine,once out in the open it isn't very fun anymore.Too many problems. I think it can make things worse in some cases though.When the H or W is not over the A and not trying to save the M.Then it seems to just push them farther into the other persons arms.I think your situation is alot like mine was.It worked for me. -By the way,if you move over to piecing i will look for you over there.Keep in touch.Take care,K
