Is it unfair to take the sex back?

[74Kim]

Thanx K! You always know what to say to make me feel better.

I think chosing him to leave would probably be harder to deal with, especially if your still in love. I do consider my self as a push over at times. I do not feel that way about myself, but it is easy to think about.
Yes I have heard "the first time shame on you; the second time shame on me". I do not think I could be All forgiving. I am just a person and he is lucky to be forgiven once!I have to say for the most part I am healing and I am trying to completely forgive. But can you describe the difference from forgiving and accepting? I know that may be a stupid question, but I am confused in that area.

curious? Do you wear your wedding rings? And if so when were you comfortable putting them on? Maybe you never took them off. I cant bring myself to wear them.
Kim