Sorry to hear that.Do you think that he might not be out long?Just needing a breather?It sounds like you really have your hands full.Perhaps,he can watch them one day so you can get away for a few hours also.Maybe a few times/wk.Do you have family close by?This could be brought up in counseling,you need to both have some away time alone and some together time,you and H away from your children. -I know it seems very selfish of H,maybe he had a very bad day.I wouldn't give him the 3rd degree when he gets home.See what he has to say.Hopefully he won't stay out too long.,K