Hi Kim,I have been wondering how you were doing.I am glad you are going to Counseling.I always looked forward to going,even though it was painfull at times.I wouldn't be too worried about your H's saying he had nothing to talk about.If you have a good C they can drag it out of them.My H is the absolute worst about showing feelings.He can seem very cold and uncaring,but the lady that we had really did a great job.My H really liked her,she did not pick sides.She was very fair.I think it is important to find a C like that.If C is one-sided the spouse may quit going. -you made me laugh when you said you called him,it reminded me of myself .I am terrible when i am angry or upset i have to know now! You can imagine how crazy i was when H was having A and i couldn't get through to him.I tried to figure it out believe me. I truly hope you had a good session today.Take care,K
