Happy Birthday Kim.My son just had one sunday.I am sorry you are feeling bad though.Cat has some really good advice .I wish i could have posted sooner,just didn't have time.It is really strange,i know how you both feel about other women.The ones we think are with us ,are our enemies.Not all i know.I also felt the same when we were out and wondering if S was checking them out.After awhile it will go away and you won't think all gals are bad. .I know it isn't about looks always either because my S's A -the OW was not very attractive,she was younger,and tiny,but face not attractive.She was a big flirt and her H had A's on her.She basically threw herself at my S and he took her up on it.It is funny i never liked her from the first time i met her,i even warned my S about her when she first started working with him.I wish there was a time machine to speed things up for you both.just remember,You are not alone.K
.I know it isn't about looks always either because my S's A -the OW was not very attractive,she was younger,and tiny,but face not attractive.She was a big flirt and her H had A's on her.She basically threw herself at my S and he took her up on it.It is funny i never liked her from the first time i met her,i even warned my S about her when she first started working with him.I wish there was a time machine to speed things up for you both.just remember,You are not alone.K 
