You are so right! I am going to have a really nice day. He hasnt come home with the kids yet, but when he does, I am going to be strong and take the road to make us happy today.

I too have lost alot of weight. But that is mostly just because of the kids, running around with them and such. Plus the stress of this has taken quite a few lbs off. I asked him for a gym membership, so I can focus my energies into something positive for myself. Not to lose the weight so much but, to feel better about myself. Losing the lbs would just be a bonus. He too thinks Im losing for him. WRONG!!! Although I am sure he likes it. As for Dh OW she was an OG that is a DOG! (other girl) She was a very young girl 19 or 20. So that in itself just sickenes me. I almost feel bad for her.

Thanx!!

Kim Me34 H39 married 10 yrs S12 D8 D6 b/g twins 2 b/g twins 1 H had PA 5/06 ended it 8/06