Is it unfair to take the sex back?

[74Kim]

JM

I have to say that he is remorseful. He said that he told because he did feel guilty, But also because he loves me and I deserved to know. When I am having really bad crying depressing days, he comes home from work and cries with me. Apologizing for doing this to me, That I am too good of a person to be put through this. It hurts him that he did this to me. So I feel that he is remorseful.

Cat03
I do have it a little bit easier than alot of you folks. My H is being so cooperative and patient. It must be so much harder when Your S isnt making an effort and being a schmuck.We just have to take day at a time. And your definatly right about finding ways to make your mind stop wandering. That will be the death of us!

Kasiopia
I said the same thing, That I would kick my H out if ever..., I also said that one thing my husband would never do is cheat. They always say the ones that think that,are always wrong. I always agree with 2nd chances and say the same about thirds. I think we maybe from the same mold. Anyways I have been keeping a journal, but I stopped writing in it for now because, I feel worse writing in it somedays , So I figuress why torture myself anymore.But putting aside my bad days, I do see a great light at the end of this tunnel. I know our life together will be better than ever. I cant believe any different. Why would I stick through this,ifI thought any less. Thanx so much for your insight, it means alot to me!!Thanx for your prayers to!