Hi there, I had a very hard time dealing with H's A.I was one of those people that said "if my S cheats on me ,I'm Out of here!"Well,it happened and i did think that at first.My H acted really strange for months,i deep down knew something was wrong.I never could prove it and i would ask and he denied.When i had my proof, i confronted him and he really lost it.He did the" I am so sorry","the crying", the "it didn't mean nothing",etc. Any how, trying to shorten post,we struggled along and i stayed because he did end it,he says before i found out it was ended.I am not so sure.He said,"he never loved her",he didn't want a divorce,etc.I read alot of posts on this forum 6 years ago.They made me realize if my H wanted to work on M ,then i should at least try.I am a believer of second chances.Not sure of thirds yet. I had good days and i had very Bad days.I kept a journal and i tell you,i can't stand to read it now.I was a very sad person.I have told my H that i lost a few years of time ,during those worst periods.I did not think it would ever get better,I did not think i could feel love towards him again.I truly want you to know that after all that time,i do love my H so very much now,i am jealous of him once again.{i got to where i could care less for awhile}.He still to this day works on us.He still trys very hard for me to trust him.As far as his stupid reunion episode,i don't know.I will always be cautious,but i am happy once again being M to S.We still talk about R problems openly now.I hope i can be of some help.I continue to pray for you all,K
