mini hijack of this post, I plan to withold sex, we were having a semi-normal SL until Tues. when I found out the A he had was a PA of months not an EA of a few weeks he had me believe. I'm just livid thinking of them two, didnt help that I found picts and notes of him describing their SL.
When we have sx it is almost like before, though once or twice I could tell something was off. He was a man who wanted it day and night, now, he doesn't want it that often, but w/OP he wan'st getting it as much as would've liked to.
I want to feel that connection, I told him I wasn't going to initiate & that if he will to do it if he feels it from his heart, not becasue I'm expecting it or to humor me, all he said was "oh, that's going to help us"
JM, any help?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
