Is it unfair to take the sex back?

[74Kim]

I was being sarcastic, when I called him a "victim".

But I went to bed some what happy last night. I told him how I felt about the sex. He agreed with me, that I should be confused about the whole sex thing. SO he definately tried, but did not push. And I went to bed with a smile on my face.
I really am confused about this though, because then I think that maybe the intamacy can bring us closer.