Whoa. Your hopping around a bit on the threads here. Took me a minute or two to find you...though I aint that bright.
I agree with whatisis. IF your H is truly remoseful and not just back because he is feeling guilty (there is a difference) he will understand. Just take some tact in your approach and find the right time to discuss this.
This is part of the healing process for both of y'all. It is a volitile time for the both of you.
You may not can show him love with sex, but there are other ways you can. Show him love in those ways. Hopefully he is doing the same for you.
