Sorry if I do this wrong, I don't have these threads etc figured out yet. Situation=9years together, 7yo D, partner dropped bomb in April. I have been very clear about my goal to stay together and put things back together and repair things that caused problem, so much as I am able. First partner was going to move out. Then decided couldn't live apart from daughter. Still seeing OW and HER CHILDREN!!! Sleeps over one or two nights a week. KILLS me but I try to get busy etc. Last revelation: "My therapist says I'm too confused to move out". Unfortunately not too confused to keep sleeping away from home. I reiterate willingness to work. No change on her part. REAL question: I have access to her email and read it. (don't act like you've never done it) What are the long term pros and cons of this? It really hurts me sometimes but other times I learn things which work to my advantage. Opinions/ experiences?
Patience is not only a virtue, sometimes it is an impossibility.
