Yes, I have. But the only strategy to get past that is to have sex. This is not a Dr. Laura stratgey. It is essentially everyones strategy. Read "His Needs/Her Needs", he employs the same thing. The point is that usually LD women are extremely uncomfortable with their sexuality, so the only way to change this is to have LOTS of sex. They need to find the EASIEST way to desire. As Dr. Laura says, it will be INCREDIBLY tough for the LD to do, they will have to have sex more then they can ever imagine. So what I am saying is that when you start this strategy, you are going to hate it, and yes the sex is not going to be very good. But if you can successfully get to the end of the 2 months, the odds are EXTREMELY good that the LD spouse will have FAR more desire and that the HD man will have AUTOMATICALLY changed and become a much better husband. The problem with this strategy is that the LD women must decide to do this HERSELF. The man must NOT make any suggestions, the man must NOT participate in her decision making process, this is something that SHE must arrive at on her own. In effect, the most the guy can do is buy the book and leave it out, and even that may be considered to demanding.
