I don't see it as manly to break up the family. I can not do anything that will harm the children. Remember, I married a women that came form a divorced family, and it is clear that her FOO have helped to CAUSE our problems, so the last thing I need to do is cause FOO issues for my sons. There is no way that our divorce would HELP our sons, especially financially. As for her being attracted to me, I have said many times before that I am not sure that a LD women can be attracted to a man that would actually STAY married to them. They KNOW that they treat their men poorly, so how could they be attracted to a man that would actually STAY Married to them. It's almost like you have to divorce them to get their respect.
