Chrome:

What I was trying to say is that my wife actually HAS most of the problems that cause LD. The question then becomes which one to address that will actually FIX the problem. Also, most of the problems don't involve me. Here are sme of the things she has:

Hypoactive thyroid.
FOO issues (grew up in terrible conditions with neglect and possibly abuse, althoug she denies it).
Body Image issues (big time).
Who wants to want syndrome.
Has never felt feminine (tomboyish).
Relationship issues.
Menopause, heat flashes, things not working right.
ETC..

I have asked her over the years which is causing the LD, and it CHANGES everytime I ask. Basically, she just keeps shifting the target.