You are right that there are many other LD reasons other than R dynamics ... for both women AND men. Maybe women have more possibilities for physical problems, but that is really irrelevant.
The question is, what IS the problem. I think your response was very revealing when you said "I would bet." If you have to BET that means you don't KNOW. What are the real reasons your W is "LD?" It doesn't matter AT ALL if there are 100s of reasons for women to be LD. It only matters what your W's reasons are. Now I am willing to grant the possibility that you do want to know your W's problems/needs/etc. and she is just refusing to talk. I know all about that. Have you tried to talk peacefully with her about it? What is her response?
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
