This is interesting. I am another woman who was LD when younger on and is HD now. Believe you me. Threre are plenty of women aceepting a less than perfect sex-life because their H's desires are lower than theirs.
IMHO - it's a communication problem. I bet both partners would like more sex. I'm taking what's happening to me now as a sure sign that a woman's libido is directly linked to emotions. I have not even pleased myself since my H walked away. I'm a pretty sexual person - but that is just gone, right now. No desire AT ALL. Kind of worrying actually - I miss it.
sorry - just had to butt in. That made me alittle feisty too.
May it be eternal while it lasts.
My sitch
Me: 36
H:34
M: 5 years
Bomb: 03/14/06