I am not doling out advice that i will not take myself. If my wife implemented the Dr. Laura strategy, I would be more then willing to take it. The whole process, if implemented exactly the way she describes, will usually lead to increased desire, the real goal. Her strategy is no different then any of the other expert relationship guides out there. Are you going to have desireless sex to start, of course. But by the end of 2 months this likely will have changed. But here is where she differ from other books, the man basically has no real input. This will work only for women that love their husbands, and are truly commited to changing themselves. Us guys are NOT welcome in the whole process, our advice is NOT welcome. This is a highly personal process that us men will destroy if we try to help. Remember, us guys try to make suggestions on how to fix things, and women usually don't want that from us, it just pisses them off. So as she says, the most us guys can do in the process is to buy the book and give it to them and then get the heck out of the way.
And by the way, "His Needs/Her Needs" also employs the same strategy. He recommends that the couples have sex every day for a long time, and he puts the women in charge of finding what is the EASIEST way for her to enjoy sex. Sheer repetion trying to find the EASIEST way to her desire is the way to success. Again, only works if the women is truly committed to change.
An this is why so many of us are stuck, we have wives that are truly NOT committed to change. They look at those first two months and see no way of achieving that, and well, that makes us stuck.
