Lifer:

Your wifes profiel is extremely common. I believe that the underlying cause of LD is almost always physcial. Birthing children can screw them up, the body image problems that arise from birthing, the exhustion of eing a mother, hormones, Thyroid disorders, and of course the fact that womens testosterone is cut in half from their 20's to their 40's. They want to think it is their men that cause it, and yes we do to a degree, but the real truth is almost always physical issues. Is it possible to go from LD th HD? I have not seen it happen. What is FAR more likely is that the HD person gives up and accepts that their marriage will be crap! Someone posted on here recently that in marriage, that men FAR out number women in terms of being UNHAPPY in marriage. It was over 60% of all married men thought their marriages sucked.