Dear Greeneyedlass, I was reading JenJam's thread about her H and experimenting. You made a comment about how you used to be shy and afraid to experiment but by going in small doses you overcame that.
First off, congrats on that. But I have some questions that I would love to see an answer to from a female perspective.
Would you classify yourself as a HD or LD? How about when you were shy?
What motivated you to try to change and experiment?
Was your H involved in your motivation i.e. was he part of the solution or problem?
How long a time period have you been "working" on this?
Thanks in advance. I am just trying to figure out my wife and figure out how much "help" or "intervention" I should be attempting.
