Quote: Well, with all due respect, she HAS the RIGHT to live in OUR home and do as she pleases within reason, just as I have the right to set boundaries as to what behavior I will accept and what I will not.
really good point and something that maybe I need to address about my own insecurities.
Quote: Ok, I get all that, but do you ever get upset when HE can't be reached?
no I don't. we are actually really good at keeping in touch. He's kind of funny, I always get an exact timeline about his day and what he'd doing next and when. Just one of his quirks that's always been that way.
Quote: I believe they still talk occasionally on the phone.
what on Godly earth would she still have to say to him. All OM ever had to say to me was why am I doing this to him, how can I just forget about him, how can I say I loved him and then leave him? I cold turkey stopped communication with him after one last phone call with that sole purpose. I don't think it's very healthy for her if she continues to talk to him. In fact, in order to break free of him I asked a friend of mine to go into my email account which was how we mainly 'talked' other than in person, and change my password.
Quote: I suspect that she still needs to fully confess that they had sex
Sorry I missed this when I asked that question in my last post, I read it I just couldnt' find it again.
I sometimes feel trapped underwater, like we'll never surface, the times that H chooses to relate a fun time to my A. That is his choice, and all choices have reactions whether he means to or not.
