Piper, my H had a PA 11 months ago. It still hurts me the today, as if I just found out. I can understand what your H is going through because I feel the same way. There is anger, hurt, resentment and disappointment all bottled up into one big emotional mess. The most hurtful thing is that we trusted our spouses. Of course, something must of lead you to seek OM. The lies, the secrets, the betrayal....it's all devasting. I feel like a truck has ran over me. Time has definately not healed my wounds. I'm sure your husband loves you but he is seriously hurt. I have not learned to let go of the anger and my H feels it. I become distant and he doesn't know how to handle it.
I'm sorry, I hope I haven't upset you, but a serious violation of the marriage has taken place. It is so painful.
