I really have no advice re. the A and I see you're getting some good stuff from others anyway. However, I wanted to comment on this:
Quote: We are in mediation. I'm planning to move out this month once the agreement has gone to the lawyer for legalization.
I am in Quebec, too. We have not actually gone for a legal S at this point, but I looked into mediation and decided not to do it b/c I wanted (a) to have someone on MY side alone and (b) not to discuss how to break up our family casually around a table. Is your mediator a L? Do you have your own L? You should have a L that you can ask to look over the agreement--NOT a joint L. A mediator will tell you if what you have is legal, but cannot take sides so probably won't tell you if are getting a good or bad deal. Your S agreement will become your D agreement if you go that route, so please be careful.
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