If you want this man, do not move out!!!! Once you are separated it's much harder to reconcile.
Have you purchased a copy of Michelle's Divorce Remedy? If not you can buy a copy on this site or on Amazon.com. Get it and read it.
Get a life. This is called GALing, and it simply means to focus on your life, your happiness, yourself. Find a new hobby, begin a new exercise program or physical fitness program. I took up Taekwondo two years ago and have my brown belt.
Read all of the R books that you can. Forget the OW one and two!!! We manifest what we think about and dwell on, so if you think about these OWomen, they will be in your life. Whenever you feel sad and depressed about your H and the sitch, simply find a fantasy of the two of you happy and him committed to you. This works, but you have to work at it at first. There are all kinds of materials out there on creative visualization and manifesting your desires.
Visualize the end result that you want. Do this every day and often. Picture youself and your husband living together and happy.
Would your H go into M counseling with you? Look up IMAGO counseling on the Web. Put in your state and find a therapist who specializes in this. Ask your H if he will go. If he won't at this point, find yourself a counselor.
Read other people's sitches, but especially focus on the successful ones.
I love Waye Dyer's tapes called, "The Secrets of The Power of Intention." These tapes and Hayhouseradio.com have helped me tremendously.
Remember, the more you think, talk about, dwell on your sadness, the more these things will remain in your life. Our thoughts really create our reality.
