Your perception has changed RADICALLY about your H since your thread called...... I cant remember the name. You talked about reading to much as a child and this being the fifth try.....it was so negative, he suckes he sucks blah blah...

You have stoped being a doormat to your H, you call crap behavior crap behavior, youve been funny and true to your feelings, without being needy, AND you have let go of the reins and let your H take care of you IN HIS WAY... after all you deserve the brand name shampoo....or whatever....

I am really happy for you too. The biggest change is your perception of him. Focusing on the positives instead of his weaknesses.

seriously..... WHO CARES.... YOUR GETTING LAID!!!!