It's been a long time since I checked into this forum and sure enough all my friends are still here! As a long term scheduler (Friday nights as you may remember) I really do think that a schedule is the place to start then hopefully build from there. Knowing I won't get rejected is such a lovely feeling and 30+ times a year is a lot better than 3! We have been married for 25 years next month and I had kinda thought that would be time to call it a day but instead we have organised a big party and I have to say I'm quite happy with things. I still have those moments where I feel unloved (her love language is a complete mystery to me) but I get over them. My drive has diminished a lot over the last year or so and I must confess (but keep it to yourselves) that some Fridays I can't really be bothered - I still do though! Love to you all. SD xxx
