Re Fran Anyhoo - got the old meat and two veg just the other night ROTFLMAO. Good, good. I never heard that one before. Glad you are hear to put your slant on things.
but for the feeling of resentment that it had to be me yet again, and the feeling of not being desirable. Fran, does your H know about the two types of desire women have?
The first type is referred to as receptive desire. This is the type of sexual desire you and many other women want.
The second type is assertive desire, this is what you have been saying you have been doing too often.
Do you think he would understand your sexual preference if you did some more research than I posted here and put it into a way he would understand what you need or what, is different from what he and you are now doing?
Here is one web page on the topic Low Sexual Desire. On page six? (Roseanu 2002) are the terms assertive and receptive desire. Print it out and give it to your H????? What do you think??? I didn't look at any other Googled sights so am not saying this page has all of the answers. You can look on other search sites.
I know I wish I knew half of this stuff before 1981 when our sex life took a dive.
