Hi RonJon! Just came back from dinner at Zippy's. Kids fave spot. H and kids are downstairs watching a movie. H hasn't said anything. I was tempted to today. Watched "The Departed" like you and I liked it. The ending was not what I expected. Suggested it to my mom. Enjoyed the movie last nite but was hoping H would have decided to stay over since I was taking half a day today for work today.

Instead, he gave me lots of kisses and said, "had to help a friend move since he has a truck."
H didn't say who, but I could tell. From that point on I wasn't happy to say the least. I was pretty grumpy driving home, which is not a good thing you know?. H said to call when I got home, which I did not. Too tired and upset.

Today H knew when I was getting off. He's the one who said we didn't spend enough time together and when I'm making the effort, I feel like he's not pulling thru on his end. I tm to let him know I was done and where was he. H didn't respond til about an hour later. H called at home, didn't answer. H called on cell, still didn't answer. H went back and forth from home to cell. Finally I answered but not very pleasantly. I know he could tell I wasn't a happy camper. Really tried, but those "feelings" came back last nite when he told me about the moving thing.

Anyway, went to take a short nap since didn't sleep well last nite. When he finally came over, H called to ask to move my car. Ever since H moved out, I've been taking up all the space on the carport! I love it!

Moved the car and went back up to my nap. Of course he tried to cuddle up and make "nice, nice," you know? I eventually did take to his cuddling b/c I missed that closeness.

Going to check out the books you recommend. Still need to check out the 5 love language one. Really trying to "act as if." Very challenging to say the least. Planning on going to Aloun farm tomorrow to pick pumpkins. We'll see how that goes as well as tonite! Thanks for asking!