Not everyone is asleep at 10:30 pm HI time Has there been any more on the OW situation? Not that asking the person in the A will do any good. The post about feeling caged is a classic example of why someone would want to be out of sight to do what they want. A good book I read when going through that was "Surviving an Affair" by Harley, even better is "His needs, her needs" same author which I thought explained a lot about the workings of a R.

It's been a while since the last post (10/1), what's the latest? RJ


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