Me again. Just thinking about my SIL. Her sitch, H moved out and bought a townhome, papers have been filed, I think he signed, but she hasn't. She said she doesn't want to go thru all the legal stuff. That as long as he was out of the house, she got what she wanted. They have a cordial R. Still calls him "Daddy" when around with the kids. Don't understand, if she went thru all this b.s. and been there, done that, why won't she just sign the papers? She's told me she's ok "growing old and alone." She didn't have a good experience with MC from what she's told me. She's a good mother and moved on with GAL. I just can't help think she would be much happier if things were actually finalized. I know she has issues to work out. She's been there for me from day one and I'm fortunate to have her as a SIL to listen and emphathize with me. Any thoughts on this?