Hi all! Been quiet for the last couple of weeks since H moved out. It's been 5 days since kids have seen him. Amazingly they haven't asked much about him. I think they have just gotten used to him being at work alot. Last nite they waited for him to come home, but was able to get them situated cuz it was sooo late. Taking one day at a time. Prior to the last 5 days, he was coming over for the last 7!. Not sure where we're heading at this point. Don't talk about any R when we spend time together. He's said to the MC that he doesn't see this (moving out) as a hinderance to us making our M work. I know he needs his own time to just himself to reflect and take perspective on the whole situation. I want to so much believe in him and trust him, but the days that are not good days, it starts to eat up inside. Been keeping busy with work alot and of course the kids. Haven't communicated at all since we had dinner on Wednesday. Trying to finish DB book and move on to the others. OW isn't due back from a working trip til either next week or hopefully 2 more weeks! Will see what happens then. Our next MC session is this coming Friday. Don't see us talking much before then because of a busy work week. I'm sure he's going to want to see the kids. Thinking,.... if he wants to see them and I'm busy with work, he'll have to pick them up at my mom's for the couple of hours til I get home, and then take them back later in the evening. Don't think he'll do that, and if he does....wow! What a step for him!
