Hi GH! Just got home with the kids. Hard to say. Working on them one by one. Very difficult when I'm looking for immediate results that I know I will not get. Just want to move on and work on "us." I had a solo session 2 fridays ago and my H was just this past friday. We go back together this coming friday. Like and am comfortable with dr. and finally started to see what he was talking about after I found out about DB. What an eyeopener! Feel like we've slipped backwards with H not at home though. Just wish he would be completely open and honest, with me but also with himself. Confirmed by dad's suspicions with him this weekend. Of course, his reactions were what to be expected. My mother has known since day 1, but I was too ashamed to tell my dad. Haven't told H because I'm sure he won't be too thrilled about it. Been trying to keep it under wraps from family and friends as much as we can but can't go on with the deceit. Being back to work is helping keep my mind off of things. And now with the BB, I'm feeling better about not being alone in this.