I think many of us could tell you that your W's LD has NOTHING to do with your LM'ing....it definitely has to do with influences outside of the bedroom.
I can't think of one person who has participated on this BB whose issues truly stemmed from lovemaking....can anyone else think of anyone? Very frequently they seem to stemm from FOO (family of origin) issues, or just simply people becoming caught up in their lives/children/work...and losing that emotional connection with their spouse/SO...and with losing that connection comes losing "intimacy" in many ways.
