I guess my perception from the thread (about the book) I read was a little bit different. LOL!
I have just been thinking about the numerous reasons to why my W has become LD: hormones, age, birth control pill (no longer taking them), bored...
and the number one reason I worry about, is that it is because of me. Am I boring, do I not excite her, am I too piggish in my approach etc...
So I thought this book had an excerpt about men being more passionate in their lovemaking which is what I was interested in reading.
But after a week of devouring these threads, I am coming to the conclusions that it is all about perspective. And that it may have nothing to do with the lovemaking but rather what I am doing outside of the lovemaking. (If it is me)