I guess we will just have to wait until this weekend and see exactly what steps he takes. If he does indeed drop her off and get his stuff, and come up here to see the girls. I will know what steps I would like to take. If he doesn't. I will TOTALLY back off. I will sever all contact with him and as someone said make him face all those demons by himself.
As I said he hasn't filed for the D yet. . . So I guess I have one wheel on the road and the other is just running in the gravel. My marriage is not totally in the ditch.
We'll see what moves he makes . . then I'll decide what moves to counter with. I can't make the decision before he does. I have definate boundaries in my head. As I said if he doesn't do what he said he would this weekend. . . I'll cut off all contact. TOTAL DARK! We'll see what happens. If he does drop her off and come see the girls I will continue this "friendship" with him.
I sure hope he makes the "right" decision. I'm worried sick. Don't worry I don't show him any of that. I play it pretty cool on the phone.
