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now you're calling him and complaining that he doesn't talk to you enough and you're all worried about whether or not you'll see him this weekend.




NO!
Actually I called him Monday because I found out more info about Kiya.
After that . . .
I called him and left him a VM saying that I had some news and wanted to tell him if he had some time.

I have NOT pushed the R . . . I haven't pushed him about coming home.
He called me and did all this again.
I haven't been bother him . . and I MOST certainly didn't complain ABOUT ANYTHING.
He was cranky and grumping AT ME ABOUT EVERYTHING.
I just kept trying to validate what he was saying.
I brought up nothing.
I even tried to tell him he was free to leave me if that would make him happy.

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Why don't YOU set a good example for him by making a decision and sticking with it?



I thought I had. I thought I had made the decision to stick with him through EVERYTHING.
That's why I deal with his crap.
I thought I had made the decision to wait on him making up his mind.
Is that not right?