Don't call him, but do take his calls. Let him see the kids if he asks. Remember dog training rules - reward the good behaviors, ignore the bad. Resist your impulse to push, prod, punish, retaliate, etc. etc. Go about your life, answer his calls nicely but don't call him or pursue, go out and have fun with your girls, focus on being happy and thinlking about YOUR future plans with or without H.
