Hey girl I went to get my hair colored today, Sheesh I have not pampered myself in a long , long time. I feel somewhat calmer today. You sound good all things considered.
I know isn't it funny how they know the door is always open and they keep coming around?
Well like others have told you here you may have to set boundaries. I think that you will do well this time just be calm and do not let him get you upset. They have so much power when "WE" give it away. I was feeling sorry for myself as a matter of fact.
... and sure he is being a little selfish with the OW sh*t but only if I allow it. So I have to decide not to allow it. If he loves me and wants this to work he knows how I feel about the two women issue. I will give him some more time and then go from there. It doesn't hurt any less though.I think more than anything he feels guilty for what he did to her and is trying to " be nice" . I dunno I can just hope thats all it is. I am in denial some of my close friends tell me.
...my heart tells me otherwise. I think you should take things slow with Kevin and just look at the time with him like a gift. JJ24 told me awhile back to look at my husband like if he was my boyfriend ,,,
only so my expectations were lower and I did not get hurt. Not for his benefit or for him to feel like he can have his cake and eat it too,,,
but for you to keep your sanity. You need that,,,
as do I and somedays they surely test it. Got a new wireless mouse today ,, sheesh I am moving up in the world.LOL You are sounding great keep the PMA and like Santhony would always tell me keep your expectations low and keep focusing on you.
God bless....