Happy Birthday Felina. Emily wow you got so much great advice. I learn so much from your thread. You were told to be assertive this is great advice. Do not get too mushy with him. He knows he can have his cake and eat it to. And do not throw a pity party either cause other wise you would have to come over to my house and we could talk all day about these "men". My stilettos are on and I will come over there and kick your @$$ , well I will probably wait til tommorrow seeing as it is Felinas B-day. { your lucky LOL} Seriously though take this slow, yeah he probably is sick of her etc. etc. Stay cool and let him sort thru this SH*T by himself , he knows you are there for him or he wouldn't have told you all that stuff. Like I said you got awesome advice these people here are so damn smart. I had a pity party for myself this morning and I better get my @%$$ in line. You have all these wonderful people telling you how to get you SH*T together do it sweetie. Looke how far you have come!!!! I wish I had that many people kicking me {{{ in a loving way}}} in the ass every day. I have alot of work to do to. I listen to the song you Shania song you sent me the other day every day it helps me smile. Once again you can do this little girl , sweet little Emily. You are stronger than you give yourself credit for. You make me smile when I am down too. Believe in miracles baby girl but do not get lost in the shuffle . Get ready to kick some @$$ and that @$$ is your own,, be awesome honey. Let him kick himself in the @$$ for being a fool. Let him drop her at the nearest wayside and drive off, let him fight his demons on his own. You keep being you, as hard as it is you can do it.I know you can.Reread all the posts that were sent to you in the past two days they are great. Read them absorb them and do whats right for you.Would he have accepted for you to treat him this way or would you even dare do it ever, You do not have to answer. I know you never would so I do think this time you need to take it slower and work on some real changes. You need to sit down " draw a line in the sand" Know what you want. NO R TALK OR ANYTHING JUST TAKE IT SLOW. AND ONCE AGAIN, REREAD ALL THE ADVICE GIVEN. GOD BLESS... KEEP ME POSTED HAVE FUN TODAY.
